So...I"m a completely self-accepting bisexual but trending gay, and fine with that too. I'm very much in the closet, but I think some of my friends are wondering. Recently, I was with some very good friends - a couple. After spending a day together, my friend's wife says - gee it would be nice to do something with you, and maybe a girlfriend or a boyfriend? It was very lighthearted and not intended to pry. I replied by laughing a bit and being noncommittal. Funny thing - later thinking about her suggestion around my sexuality was kind of a turn on, and it really didn't bother me in the least. I'm wondering if letting things slip out - although in an innocuous and ambiguous way is just the beginning.