She wants a separation / divorce

I feel like I am reading a post about myself! So much of your wife'a behavior mirrors mine. We too had a codependent relationship, she also is irrational and often angry. She also blames my therapist for making me gay. She rushed out and found a lawyer. Unfortunately my wife also thinks I am possibly bad for the kids although she doesn't stop me from seeing them. Still there are so many simularities between our stories it's uncanny.

Honestly, for a moment I wondered if I had forgotten that I posted here. Lol

I keep trying to focus on being as good a dad as I can be, let her sail off the crazy cliff as one person told me. I cannot control her actions in an effort to make her a better mother (and to be fair she is mostly a wonderul mother) I can only control my own. It's so hard to love that truth though.