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Physical aspects of men that turn you on

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Biguy45, Oct 4, 2018.

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  1. Contented

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    I find the guys that tend more fem to be super attractive. They seem so confident in who they are. Very appealing. My BF would fit this category fem and very “Gay”. lol
     
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    Buff boys that look like they could crush your skull but have a personality like a small fluffy dog.
     
    #62 malinconia, Mar 1, 2019
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    I like muscular guys and toned guys. I also like stocky guys with meaty legs and a big chunky ass.
    The hairier the better.
     
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    Really chiseled six pack abs look almost unnatural to me. I much prefer chests over abs too. I don't like the ripped look all that much. It's not important to me and never was.
     
    #64 Tightrope, Mar 2, 2019
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    I'm still experimenting with my sexuality but a nice tall guy preferably blond and has to be well groomed I just can't stand an untrimmed man, i do like seeing them and I haven't much fantasized about them as much as woman but they still are very nice to stare at
     
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    I'm glad almost no one said that they wanted a average guy. Maybe one that was loyal with a kind heart....
     
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    Sorry everyone, was just feeling a little bit bitchy! :slight_smile:
     
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    Actually being loyal and having a kind heart is really important. The last guy I had was selfish in the bedroom, so it was goodby to him!
    Great communication is vital too!
     
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    I like opposites. Either manly men, rugged and strong. Not like gym rat dude bros, but guys that are buff because of work. Or traps, boys that are cute AF that cross dress. I don't know if "trap" is an acceptable term or not, but it fits.
     
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    A good personality is a must no matter what someone looks like. I don't want to be dating that guy who treats the wait staff like crap or doesn't return the favor in bed
     
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    Slim, well toned but not overly muscular men.
    I like them to be cut, and average sized.
    Someone that I can feel safe with and let my guard down around them.
     
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    Totally agree.....I'm a very giving person and want the guy to be very happy. But if he ain't going to return it by making me content I lose interest.
    The last guy wanted me to top him Everytime. I wanted to be topped or pleased in other ways! If there is no give and take I would rather please myself! On my own!
     
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    Well I thought I was attracted to older guys. The two guys since coming out were 47 and 52...I'm 43. They were both average build etc. But....
    I'm now talking with a 24 year old. He is looking for an older guy. We are getting on really well. I've just got this feeling the chemistry could be explosive. His also happy to top.
    So what we like in a partner can change....
     
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    Good that you are exploring and trying to figure out what you like and need.
     
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    Yeah I'm learning and it's fun. Just hope I can meet him soon. We get on well and I think we are a good match. The age difference dosent bother me but it might in the future.
     
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    Not gonna lie, if we are talking strictly physical features, it's the dick. It's just what arouses me. But that's not why I love my boyfriend. I like to be cared about, I like his personality.
     
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    I just love this thread.
    I must add to my early post.
    I also like my man to be leaving the surf with a surf board under his arm with a nice tanned skin and water dripping off him.
    Devine
    Adrian
     
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    Yes! I spend a couple months living on a beach every winter in Mexico kitesurfing. I think that's probably why I feel gay. Those guys made me queer!
     
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    Watching and being in the water with those hunks is the reason I surf, I don’t surf for surfing sake I surf to be close to them! LOL
     
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    Yeah. If it weren't for hot guys, I don't think I'd even be gay.
     
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