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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by biflower, Mar 26, 2023.

  1. biflower

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    Hi y'all!
    I just found this forum and I'm really excited to get to know some of the people on here and have a safe space to talk about all of the things in the closet. I'm only just accepting that I (M/22) am bisexual. It's a super confusing and scary space to be in and I have no clue where to go from here. I just want to be able to live shame-free and express my whole self in all that I do. Accepting who I am and who I love is part of that journey. I'm glad to have some friends along the way :slight_smile:

    See ya around!
     
  2. Cinnamoon

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    Hey, just wanted to say I love your profile pic! I get how hard coming out to ourselves can be, so well done for taking such a brave step.

    But yeah this is definitely the right place for you to be if you're feeling scared and confused about things. As someone who's fully accepted they're gay I can say the world remains scary and confusing even when we can fully accept our identity, but knowing who we are and being part of a supportive community definitely helps lol

    So welcome, and hopefully see you around ^_^
     
  3. Jakebusman

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    Hi welcome to EC ! Im Bi too if you ever wanna chat
     
  4. quebec

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    biflower.....Hello and a great big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! :old_smile: I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent!) :old_big_grin: when that becomes necessary!

    *****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out and join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. When I first joined Empty Closets I was in need of a lot of support and encouragement and I found it here…EC is a safe place. I hope that you'll find good things here too! Folks here will talk to you and share...you don't have to be afraid of asking questions...we're glad to have you! Friends are easy to make and you can certain express yourself here and learn more about what being bisexual means! :old_smile: In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled "Sexual Orientation”, there are people there who have dealt with some of the same kind of issues that could be challenging you.

    Some info on how to navigate EC:
    When you have made at least 10 posts on various threads you will be able to post messages on a member's Profile Page. Just click on a member's Avatar Picture and then click on "Profile Page" in the dialogue box that pops up. You'll then be on their Profile Page and there will be a box that says: "Write Something" When you have been on EC for a few weeks and have made at least 50 posts on various forums, you can apply for Full Membership. A Full Member can send Private Messages (PM) to other Full Members and share personal contact info. Right now you can only send a PM to a Staff Member as that is always possible. Here is a quote from the Full Membership information forum: :old_cool:

    *****To be eligible you must be a member of Empty Closets for a minimum of two weeks, and have a minimum of 50 posts. These posts must be across numerous forums (Fun & Games does not contribute to post count), and consistently posted across a minimum of two weeks. You wouldn't be eligible, for example, if you registered, had no activity for two weeks, and then returned to post 50 times on your 14th day of membership.

    *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! :old_rolleyes: If you have any questions at all, you can always send me a Private Message.

    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
  5. TinyWerewolf

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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
  6. xfemmelesbian

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    Hi, Welcome to EC! It’s a massive step to accept yourself like that so i’m proud of you, if you would like to chat I love meeting new people :slight_smile: everyone is so kind and welcoming so I know you will meet people to speak to about things (including myself if you would like).
     
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    Hey there! Welcome to EC, and so glad you found us.
     
  8. 74andHome

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    Hi! Welcome to EC. If I can help in any way please let me know.
     
  9. Bob J20

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    Being bisexual is very confusing. Especially when you are attracted to both and struggle to know why.