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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ratiii, Sep 10, 2014.

  1. ratiii

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    Hi...I am 18 year old girl...I used to masturbate since I was 11.. at that time I didnt knew what i was doing but It felt very good doing that...I never pushed my finger into vagina...Instead I put something hard between my legs And press It.....Is it a wrong thing. ??
     
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    There is nothing wrong with masturbation. Any way you enjoy it, then you are doing it right.
     
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    I agree with redneck, anyway that feels good and enjoyable is doing it right.. You are looking for enjoyment and pleasure so as long as you get pleasure and enjoyment out of it, then do it anyway that you like.
     
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    You're allowed to do it how ever you want.
     
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    You might get aroused and spread some vaginal fluid or lube for that purpose on your clit, then try what feels best: circling the clit, stroking the clit with one finger, trying different fingers, anchoring the clit with two fingers and stroking with another finger...
    some try an even rhythm, one to two per second...
    try what feels best, use enough fluid...

    I'd say just relax and explore...
     
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    Nothing wrong at all. Masturbating is pretty much my favorite thing to do.
     
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    It's your body, and no-one elses. You can do whatever you want with it. There is no 'wrong' when it comes to touching any part of your own body, in any way you choose.
     
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    Think of masturbation as providing a helping hand, to yourself.
     
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    :smilewave
     
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    So long as you enjoy it, there's really no problem.
     
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    Pretty much what everyone else said and what most everyone else will tell you. There really isn't a wrong way of doing it. If it feels good to you, then by all means.. Hell even if crushing a watermelon between your legs does it, then more power to you.
     
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    it's a normal thing to do
     
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    Well I was having trouble with that, and my feelings about it, but when I sought advice they explained it really well. They said its a well-deserved stress releif and it feels good. And there is no "right" waycx
     
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    It's a topic that seems to come up a lot in conversation somehow in my friendship group (perhaps a few times while drinking lol) and I don't know one person who hasn't touched themselves from time to time.

    Unless you have body issues you're probably going to enjoy it. The 'hard thing' between your legs is probably pressing against your clit, try exploring with your hands and you'll probably find the sensation even better and stronger.

    Self exploration is important as it means you can, in future, show your partner what you like.
     
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    There's nothing wrong with it, even small children and babies do it
     
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    I admit I've done it at a very, very young age, even though I didn't know what I was doing then, but ... babies? Now I'm gonna google that O_O'

    Edit: Jesus Christ, it's possible. Apparently a six month old baby does it ...
    W-well. That's ...*still surprised*
     
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    Masturbation is on of those harmless (may I say fun things) that kind of feels "bad". Hence religions and other social devices have used it as a way of making us feel guilty so they can control us more easily.

    Masturbate all you want.
     
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    I suppose it's down to the individual. Just try not to hurt yourself.
     
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    It's funny how it's still thought of as such a taboo thing. I think everyone does it, and everyone KNOWS that everyone else does it, yet we are still somewhat embarrassed about admitting it. Or god forbid someone were to catch you doing it, you would be mortified.

    I guess it's not so much that it's "wrong" as it is just personal and embarrassing for someone to know about your private business...

    Regardless, do whatever feels good to you. Everyone's different!
     
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