How to find out or to make sure, if your friend is LGBTQ+ ally or is someone who is in LGBTQ+ (sorry, I don't know how to word it better)? I have heard my friend mention a lot how it shouldn't matter who marries who and she even said, that it shouldn't matter, even if she would've want to get married to another woman. She didn't exactly say she wants to. She has also a cousin, who is gay and is married to a guy. She is very open with this subject, that makes me happy and uncomfortable at the same time, because she loudly voices her opinions and I'm scared even just talking about it, because I don't want to blurt my secret out or others finding out, without it being the right time and place for it and I'm so curious and if she is, then I wouldn't mind outing myself to her, but I don't just want to bluntly ask about it or make a wrong move by telling her. All of these remarks just pique my curiosity. Only thing I have said to her, that I agree with her opinions and I think the same way. She kinda has earned my trust and we have known each other for a year, because of school. Talking about all of this with her makes me want to tell, that I'm part of LGBTQ+ too.