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I feel confused this morning help appropriate

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by oddquestioning, Aug 27, 2022.

  1. oddquestioning

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    So it’s the next morning and I’m not sure how to feel. Like I like my experience with boys but I’m not to sure about girls can you guys help me out please.
     
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    Can you clarify a little bit more?
     
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    I had sex with this girl last night & im not sure if I liked it or not I know I like sex with man but girls I don’t I don’t know if I like it
     
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    So, does that have you questioning your identity or sexuality? If not, just go with what feels right for you, no matter what it might be.
     
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    Sexuality because I had sex with this girl & I don’t know if I liked it or not & before I had sex I had sex with a guy so I feel really confused right now
     
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    If you are MTF and found that you like men, I guess that makes you a straight woman. I don't think that anyone here will give you anything but support.
     
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    That makes a lot of sense thank you!
     
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    Labels are confusing to me sometimes, especially when it comes to trans. I truly mean no offence with that. What bsg75apollo said makes sense in my mind. You identify as female; therefore, you are female. You are attracted/prefer men sexually; therefore, because you are female, you are straight. Kind of answering my questions out loud here. Hopefully, that is helpful to you as well. If someone sees what I say is off base, let me know, please!

    The confusion can still be there, I am sure, and I caution that you use the labels to describe who you are, but not define who you are. You are you and you are beautiful because you are you. Please continue sharing with us what makes you feel the most genuine to yourself.
     
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    Thank you so much for this it made my day when I been confused I do wanna do a update post but I think I might do that tomorrow tho