how to find lipstick lesbians

I have no idea why you'd want another femme unless you're trying to stealth as straight friends. No femmes for me.

 

Femme lesbians are more common than you think. They don't get noticed as much because they don't look according to the stereotypes. I can't tell you where to look, through mutual friends is the best way I think. I've never been to a gay bar and I doubt it's a good place to look for a girlfriend.

 

Count me in as a femme-loving femme I recently bought a rainbow necklace (very subtle though) hoping it will be noticed. I hate feeling invisible.

 

Looking at the lesbian "subtypes" I feel like "blue jeans femme" suits me best. I consider myself more feminine than masculine but I prefer casual clothes and am usually in jeans and a t-shirt. Do femme loving femmes consider that "femme" enough? Or when someone says they want another femme does that usually mean lipstick, heels, the works? I find myself attracted to more feminine women, though there's more of a range for me, from slightly boyish to very feminine.

 

I know this sounds really dumb to say.... In my head I believe its a thing but, I don't know =/ I guess I need some validation. You can be a transgender women and also be a lipstick lesbian right? I mean, of course.... right?

 

If you identify as a feminine, lesbian woman, then why not?

 

For the record, I would not date someone who wore heels. They are pretty but it would annoy me. I'm super short.

 

I wouldn't write someone off for wearing heels, but I totally sympathize. I'm under 5ft tall, myself :icon_redf

 

Lipstick Lesbians are really hard to find where I'm from. And once I actually get to know one, they're taken. Usually I get with girls that are on the DL too.

 

how can I even tell if a person is a lesbian?

 

I think going to a gay or lesbian bar is a better place to find lipstick lesbians . Didn't know lipstick lesbians were in such high demand. It's feels good to be a lipstick lesbian.

 

Okay, just not on a regular basis then. Me too, I'm 4ft 10"

 

I'm 5' 9" and I think heels are damn uncomfortable. And I look stupid. And I can't walk.

I have no idea where to find feminine lesbians. Or lesbians in general, actually. I'm not super feminine, but I'm definitely not butch. And I like fairly feminine women.

 

we're out there at the malls and super market but it's hard to know we're lesbian .
but we're out there you probably passed one of us on the street and didn't know , I'm pretty sure I passed other femmes and didn't know .

 

Same as me . I don't usually mind being short, though.

We need a secret hand signal :lol: . I guess that's where rainbow jewelry can be helpful, though I'm not sure if I'd be bold enough to wear it.

 

The mall (yes, singular) is full of tweakers. I try and avoid it.

 

So, you think we're all supposed to be fucking robots? GOD FORBID we each have our own styles and tastes.

 

I like femmes because they look feminine. It's one of the reasons why I find women attractive. Not all lesbians fit the butch/femme pairing.

 

I think I might try wearing some when out so girls will know but I think I'll also go to the gay bars in my town so it's much clearer . We lipstick lesbians gotta help other lesbians find us

 

well i found you lol
since your kind of like me, in a country that not super open to the gay community, i suggest the internet, but as usual be careful