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Homophobic Bullying is destroying my mental health

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  1. Pufferfish

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    How many times can the kids at my school make jokes about gay people doing anal?!?!? It has to get old eventually. I just don’t know what to do, kids call me all the homophobic stuff, and all that. But like the bad thing is my Grade goes to Washington D.C. and some Asshole decided to leak that I was gay, so now I can’t go to Washington because no kid trusts sleeping in the same room as me. I haven’t been able to eat lunch in a week because kids keep throwing them away and then calling me a fag. One of them had once told a teacher that I had gay porn saved on my computer, so the teacher had to look through my whole computer looking for it.
    They legitimately have like Eric Cartman level strategy to be homophobic to me such as when they grabbed my computer when I went to the bathroom looked up “femboy” (which is a banned word) then saved every image they could find including Hentai, just so they could get me in trouble. I fucking hate public school how can you be a Mega Mind at making my life hell but you can’t get a passing grade in Social Studies?!?!? I’ve had to go home with my mom 3x now because the school therapists put me on suicide watch, and it’s cuz of all the bullying. I can’t take it, I want to die.
     
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    HOLY CRAP...I am SO sorry you have had to deal with this level of cruelty. You don't deserve this treatment and harassment...I knew kids could be mean but WOW....this is on a whole other level of mean...it's cruel, plain and simple.

    I wish I had a some advice I could give...best I can tell you is you're a good person, you don't deserve the harassment and disrespect that is being thrown your way and that school needs to be sued in my opinion...something needs to be done because you don't deserve this....These little Assholes are not worth ending your life over. See if it is possible to change schools or something, sorry that I don't have much helpful advice...I wish I had a simple answer I could provide you. It just breaks my heart to see how much pain you're going through. Internet hugs if you want them. You're not alone. That's basically what I wanted to say.
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    Thank you.
     
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    You're welcome. We'll do our best to support you here as best as we can.
     
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    <3
     
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    The bad news is that they have the numbers - both the students and apparently also the teachers. There's not much you can do for now except look for a handful of sympathetic faculty members and other marginalized students - if they exist, and if they're willing to support you.

    The good news is that it DOES get better. I know that can sound like a simplistic cliche, but it's true, because one day you'll be able to make your own choices, and get as far from these awful people as you can.

    Part of life is being able to get through a bad situation where you're stuck with few options. Your current situation is an introduction to that reality. Treat this as an exercise in survival and self-strengthening - and you will have a crucial life skill that these a***les will themselves desperately be needing, sooner or later, down the road.
     
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    I just feel like I’m in some shitty sitcom, something that people might find comedic always ends up ruining my day
     
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    I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I don’t really have advice, but we support you.
    Being bullied is awful and you shouldn’t live that. It often looks like there’s no way to escape it but, as said before, things gets better with time. Life will look less like a sitcom.
    Do you have anyone close to you that support you ?
    I really hope for you that your life will get better.
     
    #8 Bludzee, Jan 24, 2023
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