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Confused about my sexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by GWR1835, Apr 30, 2012.

  1. GWR1835

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    I am 30 years old I have never had a girlfriend. I have been confused about my sexuality since I was 13, I have been attracted to women and I think I was in love with my female manager, but I am still confused about my sexuality. When I have hugged women in the past I have become aroused. But I am also slightly attracted to men. I go on porn sights especially erotic fiction and wank off mainly to heterosexual and lesbian stories but I'm not sure if this is hide my sexuality or what.

    I don't know wether am ashamed to be gay or if I am straight as I also think of having sex with men.
     
  2. Jim1454

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    Hi there and welcome to EC. You've come to the right place.

    You've told us the reasons why you don't think you're gay. But what are the things that lead you to think that you might be?
     
  3. GWR1835

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    Thanks for your welcome I was a bit nervous about coming on here Ive been having some cognitive behavioral therapy with a psychologist as I have been suffering from depression for at last 15 years and negative thoughts which are distressing to me.

    I have thoughts of sucking a man's cock, when I imagine a naked women I see a cock where her vagina should be. In discussions with the psychologist I have discussed the route of my depression might be my confusion about my sexuality might be behind the majority of the thoughts..