If there are men out there that had a total of zero idea they were gay, shouldn't that mean I'm gay? I've been out for a few years as a homosexual,but I still have yet to get off to men. I meet men that I inexplicably want to talk and am drawn to, but I can't get off to them! Why is that?! I could easily get off to women. But there are guys out there that had ZERO idea they were gay. Am I a compulsive heterosexual? If so how do I get past this? I've read stories of guys living life as heterosexuals, only to come out as gay later in life. Did these guys really had no inkling of homosexuality or might've there been some repression going on? Or when looking back retroactively, are they able to spot some clues? Or this simply a case of no evidence of any kind but realized they were gay through finding love?