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Coming out to my childs mother who I was with for 7 years

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  1. CaseyisBi

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    I confessed that I have been with a guy sexually before early on but I downplayed how much I was attracted to men. Now that we are broke up I want to explore gay relationships much more now that I'm single
     
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    Hope you get to explore and discover yourself
     
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    Thanks man I really appreciate that. I plan on finding out what I really want in life now for sure
     
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    When did you know were Bi
     
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    Probably late teens
     
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    Same with me middle/high school but didnt act on it and was scared to come out came out 4 years ago to my wife
     
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    I dealt with addiction at a young age and I am sure sexuality played a big role in that. But I didn't realize how attracted to men I was until experimenting with stimulant drugs like amphetamine pills so I blamed those on the intense gay urges they caused as a side effect
     
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    How do you feel about yourself now ?
     
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    Then I found myself thinking about guys to instantly get off when sleeping with my wife and then I mentioned that I been with a guy before and she was kinda into it but then she realized I was way more interested in guys than her
     
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    I am still attracted to men and I'm sober so the drugs were just an excuse they just made it harder to keep it bottled in
     
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    You should do a post in the welcome section and introduce yourself and tell us about you !
     
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    I just posted one
     
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    I think that's a completely natural feeling to have. Now that you're single, I hope you'll have the chance to experience these things in a safe, healthy way. :slight_smile:
     
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    Firstly, I am so proud of you for coming out- it can be very difficult. I wish you all the best and hope you are able to experience what you want to experience and be happy! :slight_smile:
     
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    Casey I wish you best as you as you process through a clear understanding of who you are. We’ve had to sort through it seems. I wish you well. Glad you joined us.
     
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