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bisexual??

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by lola b37, Aug 12, 2021.

  1. lola b37

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    Ive had sexual (more romantic) fantasies about girls, and i’ve come to the conclusion that I really want to be with one and love the idea of having a girlfriend. I feel very open to having a relationship with the girl, just like I would a guy. Does this make me bi? (i’m a girl) the thing is i’ve never had a crush on a girl before but i really feel like if I met the right one i’d for sure date them, i have a dream girl in mind too..
     
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    Welcome to EC.

    Being attracted to both men and women is pretty much the definition of being Bisexual.
     
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    lola brown..... I think that you have pretty much summed it up when you said, " I feel very open to having a relationship with the girl, just like I would a guy." That is the comment that a Bisexual person would make. So unless something changes when you actually get together with a girl, I think you can safely call yourself Bi. :old_smile:
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Hello, lola! Welcome to EC.

    If you're drawn to both men and women, fantasize about them and you're interested in exploring a same-sex romance/physical relationship, I'd say it's a pretty safe bet that bi fits you. :slight_smile: