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Being bi

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by carseen111, Sep 9, 2022.

  1. carseen111

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    Location:
    Europe
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    I had a realisation the other day.
    It's been a steady evolution.
    I had sex with a young man about two weeks ago.
    I've had sex with cis women and trans women, and had looked at a little femboy/twink porn before. It was my birthday a month ago, and whilst I'm not a birthday person I wanted to treat myself all the same. I got a hookup off a site, and paid an escort.
    I enjoyed the sex a lot, and i've found myself liking twink/fem boys now. If I see a guy who has very feminine features/mannerisms, I get turned on.
    I think I might be bi.
    I'm 42 years old, and think this is me now. In a way, i'm coming out to myself and owning it.
     
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  2. Chiroptera

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    Hello carseen111,

    Coming out can be a slow process, and everyone has their own right time. It's good that you are finally discovering yourself!

    We are here if you need any support! :slight_smile:
     
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  3. BiGemini87

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    Congratulations on your journey; it certainly sounds like you're bi, given what you've outlined here. Coming out can be a slow, sometimes difficult process, but it can also be extremely liberating, too.

    I hope the rest of your journey goes well, and we of EC are here if you have need. :slight_smile: