There is a lot of information on what it means to be asexual and the variations depending on where you are on the spectrum but I find nothing on what it means to be allosexual. I can identify with some elements of being asexual (or grey or demi sexual) but I'd like to understand what goes on in the head of someone who is sexual to be able to figure myself out (I'm a very analytic person!). So, what does it mean to you? (like what goes through your head when things are leading to sex with a new partner, do you get a lot of crushes and what does it mean to you, is sex something you think about often, how soon after meeting someone to you tend be think about having sex with them etc). Obviously I know answers are gonna be vastly different from a person to another... I'm 27 and don't really have much sexual experience (I realized I was gay at 24 and never have been with a guy before), only a couple of time with a girl I was seeing. I did not really enjoy it but I figured I was just anxious for my first time. I have been single for a long time but recently I've been seeing someone who I really like and all the questioning came back full force because we started being intimate and there is a clear discrepancy between how she seems to be feeling in these moments vs how I feel. So basically I'm trying to figure out if I'm just anxious because this is pretty much all new to me or if it's because I'm simply asexual. Looking forward to reading your responses!