I have found that being vulnerable is the most ... bonding thing one can express with others who are also vulnerable.
What I mean is, they had choices, and I had to stop denying what I was, even to myself.
Well, after the divorce, I got on a dating site and chose "men seeking men." That sort of cleared things up for me.
You need to be yourself and live an authentic life or you will never be happy.
The same thing happened to me. I reached a point in life where my gayness was pounding at the door, I think because I just would not answer it...
It's really tough going out on your own when you are older. You have to know that there are others just like you who are trying to find their...
Were you ever straight though? I mean, I always denied I was gay, but I always knew it.
Straight to Gay is a spectrum; you don't have to be one or the other. It's okay to fall somewhere in the middle, and actually most people do...
Dude, All I can say is please please please, for God's sake, take the time you need to find your true self and just go with it. Don't worry about...
OMG, that is the most awesome thing I have heard (with regard to coming out) in a very long time. How wonderful!!!
@LostInDaydreams I have had lots of therapy, years and years, even before I left. But, just today, a friend said "You were one of her...
For me, it was some of what OnTheHighway said, for sure, and also the fear of admitting my truth (I AM GAY!). I grew up in an era where being gay...
The only regrets are what my children believe about me -- things my ex-wife told them. It had nothing to do with who I am. The transition was...
You are gay, and people will still love you.
How long have you had the fantasies? For me, in started in high school. Later, I got married (to a woman) and blah blah blah. If you started...
I love you all, but I disagree. Jonathan has only one life to live and he needs to, at 40+, stop worrying about pleasing everybody else, stop...
I guess our situations were different. My wife never devoted herself to anyone but herself. She used me as a meal ticket and provider. She...
Wow, I feel sorry for your loss. I, too, lost most of family due to my ex-wife's brainwashing of our children and other members, even of my own...
I think I like the idea of being indecent sometimes.
