I resonate with so much of what you are saying... I have the same feelings when I am in therapy... we talk about my sexual orientation in detail...
I agree as well.. the day after I told him about my orientation we had therapy and the therapist specifically said, especially while he is in a...
I get that for sure! I almost feel like now that this is in the open I’m able to acknowledge and admit to myself more that I am indeed attracted...
Thank you for your perspective - it really helps to hear what might be going on from his side of things... I did end up answering all of his...
Wow - there definitely are some similarities! I’m so glad you found the courage to have that talk with your husband as well. I was just reflecting...
I resonate with all the things that are running through your mind. I just came out to my husband this past week and before doing so weighed a...
I think what’s difficult right now is how he is reaching out for more physical affection and with emotions running high it is stirring something...
It’s been a difficult week. The first few days were calm, respectful and sensitive. The shock is beginning to dissipate and there are a lot more...
Thank you! It’s been two days and he is still in a state of shock but I am so thankful how he is handling it. He has been very kind and respectful...
Thank you! Having a small group in my community has been very helpful and supportive through this process. :)
@Broccoli Thank you!! :) it feels pretty big and while I felt a weight lifted last night it has been replaced with a different heaviness of...
Good questions... I have been exploring this for about 1 1/2 years when this first hit me. Before that I had questioned my orientation in my early...
@candiekane I have not been intimate with anyone besides my husband. I have experienced harmless crushes toward women which gives me insight into...
Hey! I definitely do not think he needs to know all the details but want to give enough information to help him understand how this came about...
Well, I did it...I came out to my H last night. The conversation went surprisingly well...given the situation. He’s hurt but he was also sensitive...
Thank you everyone! Reading your support throughout the day yesterday help me keep my strength and momentum to move forward. We talked last night...
Thank you everyone for your kind words and support. I’m feeling the positive virtual vibes :) I sent my husband a text message this afternoon...
Thank you! Still feeling good (and nervous). Planning on sending the text after lunch about wanting to hang out this evening and chat... that way...
I feel like today is the day to tell my husband about my orientation. I decided yesterday that it is time and I feel more at peace with moving...
Thank you for all these helpful responses. Two years ago when I wanted to start therapy I thought our relationship could be fixed but that was...
