I totally feel your need to be and feel more gay. After admitting to myself that I’m gay I feel like everyday is a chance to further get away...
It’s so confusing! I’ve really had to figure it all out. A relationship with a woman would be out of the question because sex would always be a...
Bisexual yes. To a small degree. Men are my sexual preference. Hetero sex if I am being honest is not satisfying for me. I have tried to make...
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that. A very similar story to mine in ways
Thank you so much
I understand your questions of the morality of being gay. I also suffer from the shame it still brings me. I no longer allow my wife to hurt or...
I understand your pain and frustration. It’s a painful process. If it’s what you need and want you will stop at nothing to have it. Either way...
I had a very sober and frank conversation with my wife this morning. I started it out by saying to her “I am gay”
Hi there. Thank you so much for reaching out. Sorry about your situation. I know how very hard it is. I have come to the same conclusion as you. I...
Hi Jake Yes I am trying to project the image of a normal family. I have not had sex with a man since my wife agreed to “let me do my thing”. I...
Me too. I’ve accepted I am gay but I’m a devoted married man with a child. One version of myself needs to live authentically as a gay man the...
The need to physically be with a man or men is powerful and relentless. Homophobia is definitely an issue for me as well, still. It’s a mind f**k...
I’m torn between staying with her and our young child who needs his dad or continue to be closeted and sexually frustrated. Choosing my sexual...
I’m totally in the same boat. I’m so myself with men. I realized a while back, that with a woman I felt I wanted to be submissive. With men I want...
I’m trying to make it clear to her of the situation at hand. She’s still in denial to some degree
Fortunately or unfortunately that is where I am at. It’s incredibly frustrating at times
It is terrifying. I’m terrified. You’re right about a lot of things. Thank you
I’m not. I’m struggling
Hi all. I’ve been working on coming out to my wife of over 25 years. I’ve gradually made progress with her as she has been in deep denial, as I...
