I think Silver is on to something here. She may not know WHAT she is feeling--or how to interpret it, if that makes sense. That's how it was when...
Hi @zumbaqueen, I am sorry this is such a painful time. I remember when I was still living with my husband prior to divorce and how emotionally...
Well it sounds to me like you are thinking with a level head about all of this. And that is REALLY hard to do with matters of the heart. I think...
This therapist is not the only one out there so if therapy is not seeming to be effective for you, is not helping you handle thoughts that...
Believe me you AND everyone else in the world has had these thoughts! As long as you are with someone you are comfortable with, truly like and are...
Just caught up on this thread! So here's my take. Ok-so lets get to reality here. There are 92 Billion available songs to listen to on Youtube....
Is the woman you are in love with your first experience with a woman? I ask because I read an article on 'Losing Your Catalyst' and why it is so...
Similar spot I am in. But you seem to have answered the bottom line question, 'we're terrible for each other, she'll never be what I need,' and...
Haha-yup, truth right there--I think if I followed all the advice usually given to me by some of my real life friends my life would be even more...
I certainly get the idea behind your friends advice, but I'm not sure it would yield the result you would hope for. I guess in a perfect world she...
Definitely looks like you've gotten some great advice here already! Not sure I have much to add-though I wonder if she senses that engaging in...
I would say a good barometer of whether to cut someone out of your life is to check your reactions to when you are with them, or when you are...
Sensing that I am a bit older than you (quite a bit!) my best advice here through my own experience in life is: do not be your own worst enemy...
@LostInDaydreams -re your thoughts being too ‘jumbled to be considered a list’ -I think you will appreciate this as much as I do! [ATTACH]...
Love your husbands simple response, 'how else do we get the free cake?' I probably would have been overthinking the button wearing too! Lol! But...
Don't lose sight of the progress you have made to this point. Huge progress. Sometimes the biggest hurdle is actually knowing where we want to be,...
LOL-had to laugh at this. Yup! This is my parents---making up stories to fit their 'script' and generally living in la la land. I can totally see...
Very cool post Rana! I agree, so thankful being able to meet all of the wonderful people here. And to think I was almost 'too scared' to join at...
I don't necessarily think you are missing anything re:coming out. I can relate to this too. (I'm divorced with no children though.) For me,...
Seems like you have gotten a lot of great insight here by others sharing their stories. Especially the perspectives from older EC members who have...