Gay conversion therapy will NOT work, it's been proven over and over again. You cannot subject yourself to this. It will only mess you up further....
Have you thought about places like Durham or Chapel Hill, North Carolina? Both are very liberal areas in an otherwise very red state. The climate...
You have a very controlling family dude, they are saying basically, "Our way or the highway. This is NOT love, the kind of statements your parents...
So you say your co-workers aren't mean, but they have their homophobic opinions. Well, every one is entitled to their opinions (although in many...
I think you are in an excellent position to start creating a life for yourself as a gay person. Shyness is something that can be very difficult to...
I have seen several posts where people were thinking about coming out, but now are hesitating because we have this vulgar pig for president, and I...
Because you have already spoken to your mother, maybe you should get with her briefly before the family meeting and tell her exactly what you have...
It sounds to me like you mum already knows, or at least suspects. and given the situation with your dad and brother, it's hard to understand your...
Have courage and strength, believe in yourself and believe that you can figure this out. Give yourself permission to feel what you really feel...
Your Catholic guilt is preventing you from seeing this thing clearly in my opinion. If you could, at least temporarily, step away from your guilt...
I think that you don't really like yourself very much, and that doesn't have anything to do with being gay or not. You need to fix this before you...
Hmmmm, I think I might agree with Imgay47, where there's smoke there's fire. You sound as though you might be bisexual in the very least. If you...
It might be a tossup, but I look at it this way. As you get older, HOPEFULLY, you also just kind of generally grow in terms of wisdom and insight...
So many people never have the opportunity you have been given to re-create yourself. And, it is amazing, isn't it? To be in a place where you see...
If the game is shit, don't play it, may work when it comes to playing politics, or playing the good son or daughter, or the perfect employee, or...
Do you think you might be clinically depressed? It sounds as if you might be. Depression colors everything in one's life...literally everything....
You tell yourself you are gross when you admire a handsome man because you have been programmed by your society to think that way. You might try...
I don't think you want to be with a woman...you want to want to be with a woman. And I'm sorry, but the bottom line is if you are gay your are gay...
You say your parents are homophobic, but I hope you are not basing this just on the fact that they may think you are gay. Do they say other...
