Quick correction: third paragraph, nothing but “friction” with my family.
Hi all, I’ve had a pretty awful Christmas and I just need some support. I’m still processing this and I don’t know what to do. I live in Seattle...
Since you did answer, do you mind if I put you on the spot? *wink* Can you expand on how you “enjoyed” the same-sex encounters? Was it primarily...
I hope your friend gets the care he needs and makes a good recovery. Isn’t it funny to look back on life and see who left the impressions on the...
Are you primarily straight with gay curiosity or primarily gay with straight curiosity?
I remember when (in the US) the Discovery Channel did the original “A Haunting in Connecticut” that I thought was amazing. Truly creepy, and a...
For me there have been a few challenges and lessons learned. I still cannot say that I am handling things well, but I think I am headed in the...
Performed oral on a boy when I was 12, participated in first anal when I was 19. I did feel that the experience at age 12 was appropriate, since I...
Coming out to others is an assertion of who you are, a statement that you know who you are, and a way of being that you are valuable and good just...
Graham is a spineless chameleon. Not to insult spineless chameleons tho...
I’ll add some of my own experience, although I am primarily gay and certainly no expert on bisexuality! I don’t know if this can be extrapolated...
Thanks QuietPeace!
I have not read this article, and I am not sure what to say about the data. However I have a few opinions about the concept of the survey: The...
Shame is a huge obstacle for people (especially men) figuring out their sexuality. You might want to read the book “Coming Out of Shame” (I can’t...
Are you already out to yourself? Are you trying to come out to others? In my opinion there are two aspects of coming out: 1) coming out to...
Sadness, Your situation reminds me of the “fight / flight / freeze / fawn” response to stress. When someone encounters a threat, or feels stress,...
Those sound like possible attraction to me, yes. That swelling in the chest and bit of nervousness around an attractive guy are pretty normal for...
Well, if we weren’t different, we wouldn’t need gaydar or other survival skills. Seriously, I would just like to be straight, not need gaydar, not...
^^^ What Patrick said!
So after almost 5 years on Empty Closets I finally learned the multi-quote feature! Look at me go! :kissing_closed_eyes: Heh. Is your friend...