Yes, I have. My strategy was the same as yours (I hurt a lot, keep it secret, keep going somehow). It backfired. I would have done better to tell...
Oh honey. Don't get drunk, man. And find a girlfriend, stat, before you DO ruin your friendship. The best this can end is with hurting both of...
hugs my dear. separation/divorce is never going to be easy but at least you are moving toward a future in which you can be most authentic self.
You can do it!
divorce was the best thing for my parents and even as a kid i could see that. They married their soulmates the second time around. or at least...
lol, this list. I don't fit anything except kinky and horny. I'm femme as hell, hate cats (sorry) and sports and don't do drugs... I AM...
It really does. I mean I'm not CURED but it helps at least as much as therapy. Check out the ones you don't already have. It's quite a list. :)...
According to the people on the forum, a trigger crush is a person of the same gender on whom one develops a very strong crush that is the...
I didn't question. I just thought I was super tight with women and female friendships. I liked it that way, frankly--I didn't have any interest in...
Hiya darling. I was wondering about you. Take care and keep us updated. Taken in summary from all your posts I think this seems like the right...
dude awesome all around
:p I would be! Although I talk a lot.
WOW. I am SO PLEASED FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE.
what these guys said. Although check out the "difference between gay and straight dating" thread for some eye openers about gay men.
You seem pretty normal to me, especially for a queer person. I don't see much difference between a love that lasts forever and getting married....
baristajedi: I wonder though, if we (you and me) would be more able to build friendships with better mental boundaries because we're more aware of...
I agree with these guys. Hang in there, friend.
I'm pretty much your type haha :D (Although I'm no Liv Tyler or Kate Mara!)
Yeah, I hear this, too. I'm a bit afraid of engaging my gay side again after being constantly agitated around my trigger crush. Although I did...
Yup. I'm very sorry for your turmoil. I can feel your pain and confusion. One of the hardest aspects of all of this for me was realizing I've...
