Aww. I'm sad to hear that it didn't turn out to go your way. Though it still sounded like it was done in mutual respect and openness, which is...
Mr Cat! It has been so long! If you even remember me, lol. It's been 8 or so years since we last spoke. For what it's worth, I have sent the...
It has happened to me a few times. And usually, it seems to fall into one of two categories: 1) We write back and forth a few times. How's...
1. What was the biggest change in your life this year? I became a manager at my job. It's... scary being responsible for people. It's also...
Aww. Just to be clear here: replying is not a bother. I am very glad that you are at least feeling heard, and I hope that my opinion can give you...
Lol, you’re trying to draw me here into a discussion of each test, aren’t you? :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: Do please promise that you keep...
Awwe. I do wish you a better Christmas! Pandemic was hard on us all, especially those of us who compulsively overthink (and, while I have no OCD,...
Well, you know you have OCD. Diagnosed and in treatment. So there's that for a start. It's unlikely you spontaneously lost it. And doubly unlikely...
I have taken the liberty to also check your previous thread and... I am going to say it is still the OCD talking. You have OCD, you are diagnosed,...
I don't want to detract from what others said here. I agree with pretty much all of it. But it always helped me to get multiple perspectives, so...
I definitely noticed my own attitude to reconnecting changing as I get older. When I was young, all of my friends were current, and even the...
[ATTACH] Not a bad number, for a European, I'd say! Helps to have worked for an American company. My most visited state is, surprisingly,...
(continued from above): It actually should just tell you "potential STDs exposures you've experienced", rather than "people". If you do this in a...
Ah, but that's the thing. It's not 4X3 at all. It's 4^3 (so four to the POWER three!). It would be four times three if all of your four partners...
Whoa, this thread is like a blast from the past. I return to it after 24h and already so much more to think of! Don't feel helpless or useless,...
You know, it DOES come to mind that what you're describing are two radically different social situations, with different goals. Your friends are...
Okay, tons of thoughts now suddenly. Apologies for not seeing your excellent post earlier, @smurf You know? This paragraph caused something of a...
Yeah, very much the same thing here. After I came out, I just progressively stopped worrying about a ton of other things, too. To the point where...
That's the thing I wonder, though. Do they, really? I mean, sure, any of the myriad scenes and microscenes have a certain culture, and in-jokes,...
Interesting seeing all of these personal experiences! For me, personally, it seems to be divided roughly as follows: Most of my close friends...