To look less nervous, I think you probably have to BE less nervous. I don’t think it’s easy to fake it. People can easily pick up on body...
The problem with these sorts of groups is that the established members are slightly glued together in a clique and it’s safer for them to...
Brilliant post! Good for you!
Your brain was ‘wired up’ by society …. and your earliest upbringing and experiences of homophobia. It doesn’t sound like you have gay friends or...
Give good eye contact. At some point they will ask if you have any questions for them. So make sure you have one or two questions up your sleeve...
Going to try an oil painting this Christmas .. it’s been 2 years since I last tried
Don’t let shame come in to it. If only you knew how many people are on meds these days. Only you and your doctor need know and he/she will...
Meds are a bit difficult to get right instantly. You should discuss with your doctor first as it may just mean you need the dose changing. Plus...
Caaaaaaaats!!!
How about:…. Go and learn a language where you will be in a class every week Art classes Hiking groups Voluntary work … basically anything that...
I think ruminating on the past will just suck you dry. Focus on the present and future. Make a three or five year plan and map out the steps to...
Four men discuss coming out in later life [MEDIA]
Well done for being that courageous! I have never posted my pic online so …respect!
Alien here… Welcome!
I think this seems to be a common thread in your life but you need to keep reminding yourself it is mostly a feeling from the way your brain is...
This sounds like a classic combination of anxiety / low self image. but if it is distressing you in your daily life it may be something you need...
Based on your post alone, are you having an anxiety attack or are you prone to anxiety? Deep breath. Go to rest room for 20 minutes .. it will be...
Is there a gay friend you could ask to go along with you ? Well done for going with any “group” you will find some competitive high achievers but...
Sorry it didn’t work out but good you came to a quick conclusion. But don’t give up. Search online for other groups. Maybe some groups that are...
It can be scary but exciting in equal measure I reckon you’ll find it’s the best decision you ever made with Zoom and everything you can still...
