I'm really happy for you Sarah! I'm in the same boat. I'm 32 gay and living withh my GF of 3 years. She's talking babies and marriage and I need...
I think I knew in elementary school. But that was before I understood what it meant. Then I got caught doing stuff with my "friend" by his mom and...
I had that a couple of years ago with a boy I met in a bar. We had a pretty quick affair that lasted a month maybe. I never had that feeling when...
I was not seeking validation. I want advice, but don't you see the difference between constructive advice and what you posted? What you wrote...
Thanks people,y I KNOW what I have to do. pinklov3ly you are absolutely right, the no kids thing is a deal breaker and I have to be honest with...
I'm laying in bed beside my sleeping GF trying not to lose my shit. A few days ago my greatest fear nearly came true. She thought she was...
Well I have the opposite problem: I only like straight porn but when I'm with my girlfriend I have to imagine I'm with a man just to keep it up!...
@pinklov3y I think that's really good advice. She does know that I like boys and she even said she'd be okay with me having a "gay weekend" but...
This seems to be the only way I can get into (or through) it. I feel terrible. Everything is there. It's just the sex. Sex with my girlfriend and...
Thanks for replying. What you say makes sense. It's not the first dream of that flavor. I do everything I can to not deal with my feelings so...
Let me start by saying that I am gay and in a relationship with a woman. We've been together two years yesterday. I've briefly come out more than...
Man I wish I had thought of the note on the refrigerator. Priceless!
If I were you I'd find myself a job (any job) and get out of that house as soon as I could. Do you have any friends looking to move out?
The hard part is that it's not so black and white. I wouldn't describe our relationship as miserable. I love her...just not the same way she loves...
Thanks VanceA. Helpful.
yeah, that's the kind of response I had expected! And yeah I know you're right.
So it's hard enough being gay in the closet and having a girlfriend. My problem right now is that she really loves sex. And I if you can guess I...
I get that...not the asian thing, I'm into all sorts of guys but the wanting to make out. I don't really get off watching male/male porn unless...
Yes. My first adult experience with another guy left me feeling dirty and guilty as fuck. I suppose that's one of the reasons I'm still not out....
So it seems I'm following a pattern. I have a crisis about my sexuality. Convince myself I'm gay and then I slide back into my straight life with...
