Hi CatsandDogs. There are elements in your post that sound very familiar to me. Would you be relieved if your wife initiated a divorce? You...
To Paradise by Hanya Yanagihara It's a little challenging but a great read ☺️
Thanks for posting cornersky. It's inspiring to hear how your life is blooming. Your daughters sound wonderful - hope you have a great time at...
Hi Tommy That's a big step. I imagine you and your wife will be on something of an emotional rollercoaster. Your wife will likely need some time...
Me too. In trying to move from questioning to acceptance, I've found I'm reading as much material as I can find. If I apply this to myself, for...
Hi Purple Yoda, I'm sure it wasn't easy for you to put up your post so kudos for doing it. It seems like you have a lot going on and obviously...
Thanks all for your comments I do plan to do some work around 'internalised homophobia' or socialised conditioning and expect that won't happen...
An open marriage wouldn't work for us. I think I know what I want (although I have reservations for various reasons) but I am reluctant to cause...
Hi Dave, Realising life is finite was certainly a catalyst for change for me also. I started to follow Dr Joe Kort (sex therapist) on IG and he...
Hi. I am working on accepting that I am gay after a lifetime of pretending that I am straight but have a bit of a way to go yet. I am married...
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Hi Tommy, Your dilemma is shared with a lot of guys here. It's a tough place to be. It's sounds like you have accepted your identity which can...
That's emotive stuff @johndeere3020 and impressive writing The 'got to break free' reminds me of the Queen song and I was thinking how hugely...
Yes, of course it's ok and it doesn't mean you are a weak person. It's sounds like you are being a little hard on yourself and maybe you could...
Good for you @bsg75apollo and nicely expressed Hope you are feeling positive and looking forward to the possibilities ahead
Hi DelightfulWave Your dilemma strikes a chord with me. You obviously love your husband even if you both realise it's not the full on...
Thanks silverhalo. I think I agree but she is a wonderful person and I'm struggling to bring up the difficulty emotional conversations again....
Yes, it's a big life change, so it makes sense to take it slow. I hope it will work out successfully for you both
Hi all, I am struggling to know whether I should separate from my wife and worried about how hard it might be for her. I'm early 50's and we are...
