You are so so so right. With a woman it takes all sorts of mental convincing, with a man just the sight of him is enough.
Please know you are not alone. I too am in my forties, married with children, and am just in the last few years coming to accept that I am gay and...
Oh my, I LOVE THIS. So so so fab. And I'm jealous. I want to scream it from the rooftops but I am just not there yet. So happy for you!!!!
welcome to EC!!
Not weird. Understandable. When we feel trapped any release from this cage can feel like it would be a relief. Love what everyone here has to say,...
Hi @CatsAndDogs I have gone by myself before. Granted this was years ago and before I'd actually come out to myself. it was great, even if I only...
Hope everyone, no matter where they are on this journey, can take some time to reflect and know that you are loved, you are necessary, and you are...
thank you for sharing your journey with us. I know for myself it feels like one step forward, two steps back all the time with this.
Alway appreciate your thoughts @Contented
Well said. So many of us sharing the same experience.
Great posts guys and GREAT advice. Not an easy situation for any of us.
I used to fear the word "gay", if I heard it in ANY context I thought someone must be talking about me, that they MUST know my deepest secret, my...
Totally get that numbness, guys. All the repressed desires and the need to hide what you really feel and what we really are. It can't help but...
Wow.... reading you guys talk about sneaking into the Gay section of the book store feels like I'm reading versions of myself. I did the exact...
I was 12 and it was a boy I was in the scouts with. For about a year and a half I would go over to his house and we would role play, he'd dress up...
Love hearing this! Congrats!
Welcome! This community is here for you. :) congrats on the big first steps.
Can't control the flood gates, nor would be want to... the flood is just so powerful, much better to kneel in front of it.
Isn't it amazing how it just keeps intensifying once you are on the road to acceptance?
Totally on the same page with both of you. Got married even I am totally on the same pages with you guys. Got married while suppressing my gay...
