While this might not help you too much, I thought I’d share my own experience because I feel we’re very much in the same boat. I’d never...
This is what happened to me too! There weren’t many gay people visible in my world so my idea of a gay person was very distorted I think.
I like this thread! Hit on this comment because although I have little experience with men I feel like I definitely have a type. I’m usually...
I can only speak from personal experience but I just assumed I was straight for most of my life, despite masturbating to men sometimes. As I got...
It’s an interesting point. In my own experience I assumed I was straight for most of my life but have discovered that I’m not. In fact I think I’m...
This is very true. I’m finding that my desires come from nowhere and are not a conscious thing at all. After all the hand wringing it’s actually...
I’m not sure if this is what you’re looking for but outside of porn, I like to look at quite muscular guys that are hairy. Chest hair and armpit...
The point that makes me think I may be gay is that I found that I had to imagine a man when having sex with women to get/stay aroused.
Yes, very similar to me. I’ve only had a couple of occasions in the ‘real world’ where my brain flipped and allowed me to think in those terms. On...
It was always quite an effort for me to get aroused looking at women and I struggled with it for years. After I discovered what happened when I...
I used to get erections from looking at girls until I discovered my attraction for men. Now I never do.
Speaking from my own experience, I never get an erection looking at pictures of women anymore and fantasising about sex with them doesn’t work...
This is interesting. Like you, I’m still quite confused about my sexuality. This question though is a no brainer for me. I would 100% want the guy...
I’ve been on this forum for a while but don’t post much because I haven’t made much progress and am still a bit confused about my sexual...
Just read this whole thread and it shocking how similar my experience is to several of you guys. I’m still pretty confused even though I’ve been...
This is interesting because it actually strikes a chord with me. I’m an ok looking guy but never had a girlfriend until I was 24 or so. I now...
Yes, being online and anonymous if you choose is a nice outlet for me too.
I think I perhaps always had an attraction but it was buried very deeply due to ingrained homophobia. I’m still working it out but am starting to...
Interesting. I find myself having lots of fantasies about men which is the thing that leads me to thinking I may be gay. Are your fantasies about...
Yes this makes perfect sense and I figure that I am probably gay. I just don’t feel it ‘deep down’ if that makes sense? I suppose I need to...
