No harm to anyone at all! Maybe it's time to seek therapy? Anxiety makes all of this difficult, first address these three problems then...
So what I read here is that you have sexual fantasies over girls and you fall in love with a girl before, you never had sexual fantasies over guys...
Again: sexual orientation is something you experience not something you obsess over. If tomorrow you will like a man that's ok, if not that's okay...
Don't tell yourself anything, just accept you have this thoughts. Do not try to figure out anything until you have your anxiety under control,...
"It's not me it's my ocd" is reassurance and a compulsion. Accept you have the thoughts and move on with your life, it may be ocd or real desires...
I would like to highlight some points. I think you're adopting a controlling behaviour towards your emotions, please don't spike because that...
May I ask you what you do when you feel anxiety related to the thoughts?
Yes, I was not aware of my anxiety, I thought I just was caring about my health. But actually I was constantly worried about diseases: what if I...
I know it's hard but he is your best friend and "boyfriend", he deserves to know the truth, don't lie to him.
I don't know, if you're using porn to test yourself then pause until you feel better, if it's a pleasure and it doesn't impact your life then do...
The more you fight them, the more you will have them. Accept that you had the thoughts, feel the anxiety related to them and prevent...
We can write you any answer, you won't believe none. Man, listen to me: do you want an advice? Stop asking, stop testing, stop ruminating. After...
A therapist can help you answer this questions, you're not crazy. Therapy helps a lot and it does not mean you're crazy, chill. Even if you are in...
My advice to you is to seek therapy and tell everything to your psychiatrist, stick with meds(it takes time) and hope for the best. Try to...
You asked if you're gay at least 4 times in 6 minutes, you're spiraling. Look, I am gonna tell you how this works again: you're obsessing about...
You may or may not be gay. For your own sanity, stop masturbating to thoughts too. What I mean is that you must not masturbate to check your...
I asked because I don't fully understand the concept of latent homosexuality, in particual I didn't understand if you should get strong arousal...
Yes I think I'll bring this up next week. At the moment I fear that compulsions are just a way to express some latent homosexuality, but if it...
I am starting to recognize that compulsions do not give me anything other than certainity about my sexual orientation. I don't get pleasure by...
This happened to me too, I thought I was recovering but then I crushed again last friday. I have this moments of clarity when I feel free and...