I think that would be my choice also although there is no right or wrong way. It’s about what feels best and right for you.
Hey that is always a tough situation but when you say you were fine until that night, you were fine in the respect that the thoughts werent taking...
Hey I would just add that if you think you would feel more comfortable then you could come out to him in advance before you meet at one of your...
I am sorry you are struggling with this but I think my main take from the thread is that in the beginning you tested and felt nothing but you...
Thats awesome, congratulations.
Hey as the others have said it isnt an easy situation. I did notice on your profile that it said you weren't out at all, so then I was wondering...
Hey welcome to EC. Try not to stress you will figure it out. I did have one question, what do you think it is that first made you question your...
Hey I am sorry you are finding it hard. It is never easy to leave a relationship that has become your normal for many years, even if there is a...
Hey I know it is hard but in a lot of ways I found the less I thought about it the clearer it became. As others have said previously only you can...
Hey I am sorry that you are going through a tough time. I agree that I think your Mum will come around in time. I know it is tempting to regret...
For the red bit of your post, you dont have immediately imagine having sex with a guy to be attracted to him. I am a gay female but I dont and...
Do you ever look at guys when you are out and about? I know you say you dont find them attractive but is that in a they dont catch your eye like...
Hey you have definitely had a rough time and its understandable that you are feeling like that about everything. I think the important thing is...
Therapy is a great idea. Have you watched the documentary on Kelly Holmes? If not I think you should consider it. I totally understand your...
Hey it is hard to know why she has ghosted you, it could be any of those reasons or it could be that she does also like you and doesnt feel like...
It's definitely not about manning up. The fact you are finding it hard to have these conversations is testament to your personality and kindness....
Congratulations on coming out to your wife, it is never easy. I think perhaps you need to just be open and honest with her that you are unhappy in...
I think its tough whichever way you look and I know that isnt really very helpful. Have you considered going to therapy, perhaps on your own and...
Hey as the others have said dont be too hard on yourself, you like who you like. Nothing wrong with mentioning you arent straight whether you like...
Hey I know it can be tough in smaller places and an hour or so distance can seem like quite a distance for a relationship but if both people drive...
