Oh Jack, I wish I could put my arms around you and give you a big hug right now. You're a young trans man going through a tough time, living...
Well, tell your friends that. If they're good friends then they will back you and realise that you're genuine. I can relate to an extent in that...
You're welcome, PrettyBoyBlue! It should be added that internalised homophobia and transphobia is very very normal amongst us in the LGTBQ...
PrettyBoyBlue, it's called internalised homophobia. For so many gay men and lesbians it's something that they have had to navigate before coming...
He is right and it's not just you. But stick with it because within that club there will be some people you click with. Honestly, this is what...
Do it! But...if you are unsure about wearing nail varnish at work, make sure you purchase some remover beforehand. I still present as male...
Hi Kiromane, you don't mention how old you are, which I think is quite crucial here. How independent are you? Do you earn your own money? Are you...
This is exactly why I avoid F******* and the like, Lydia. I think it is possible to have a proper conversation with a bigot, but only face to...
Yes! From what you've written, coming out to them now will be counter productive and could quite possibly see you end up homeless. So, don't....
Hi Danielle, I get that it must be so incredibly difficult at the moment. Do you have any friends who would support you if you came out to them?...
100% agree with you Lydia.
But that's not true, surely? If it would make you happier, wouldn't it make your close friends and colleagues happier in turn? The pursuit of...
Ultimately, it's fear. They're scared. And when I mean 'they', I mean the rich white heterosexual men* who have wielded power over us for...
Thanks Sunchimes. My situation is so bittersweet. In some ways I'm so much happier because I feel I'm finally me and I don't have to pretend to be...
I've known since I was 6. That's when the idea of wanting to be a girl first took hold of me. This was in mid 70s Britain. I didn't know that...
It won't happen if our US sisters and brothers stand up, take to the streets and fight for their rights, for all of our rights. And, of course,...
Scary times in the US, which appears to be turning into Gilead before our very eyes...
If you are concerned, I would tell the friends (and teachers) that you're out to, not to let slip to your parents. I've found people are generally...
Kody, it's your human right you wear whatever the f*** you want, whether you identify as male, female, neither or some other combination thereof....
Hello VoxikToxik. To be blunt..if you are under 18, still dependent on them and have any suspicion they might do the things you mention, I would...
