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First Experience?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Artoffact, Jul 11, 2022.

  1. Artoffact

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    My sexuality is still a fairly fresh topic in our relationship. I've only known who I am since December, but we have discussed a few times the idea of me getting the opportunity to explore my sexuality with another guy.

    Should I get that opportunity? Is it something that we should set ground rules for? What kind of rules? We are both very 50/50 on the entire situation so any advice would be appreciated.
     
  2. Chip

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    Your post is a little confusing. Are you referring to an existing relationship with a woman, who you've only recently told you are bi? If so, and you are talking about experimenting with a guy, I think ground rules that you discuss with your existing girlfriend are important, and it's probably also important to set clear expectations with whomever you are hooking up with (as in, letting them know you're in a relationship, newly out, experimenting, and whatever other constraints you and your GF agree on.)
     
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    Yes I'm talking about a current relationship. And yes experimenting with a guy is what we are off and on discussing.
     
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    I also agree that the man should know the expectations. I was just trying to get some solid advice for rules that would help make this enjoyable and more comfortable for all involved.
     
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    I think both of you should find another bi guy and experiment together. See can see first hand what your up to and she can have fun to .
     
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    That's something I've considered as well. I think it would be a great time!