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After many years of confusion

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by JordanJB, Oct 12, 2021.

  1. JordanJB

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    Hello everyone on here I know none of you have probably seen me posting much on here but here goes I've just accepted the fact that I'm gay, for the last 3 months and I feel so good about myself, after many years of denial and confusion and anxiety about it for the first time in my life I feel more confident in myself I'm just glad that I finally know and now I can actually live my life now and feel happy and let go of the past
     
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    Congratulations! Great progress. :slight_smile:
     
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    Gongratulations! That's great.
     
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    That's really good to hear, OP. I'm glad you're able to be a more complete, authentic you. :slight_smile:
     
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    Really great to hear this. I can take a long time and a lot of soul searching, but that's okay. Coming out is a process and we can only do it on our own terms and in our own time. That's exactly what you have done, so congratulations.
     
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    Congrats OP! Even if you are the only one who knows, it can be a great feeling to finally figure things out! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats. It is truly liberating.
     
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    So happy for you. You have allowed yourself the freedom to be who you are, love who you want and live as you want. Awesome
     
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    So happy you discovering yourself !