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If you have a child, do you want them to be Queer?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Burnedcloset, Feb 20, 2015.

  1. florence2000

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    I wouldn't care but statistics scare me.
     
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    I'd just want them to be happy....
     
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    I would want them to be happy.
     
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    Like many, I would want my son to be whoever he is. I wouldn't want to steer him one way or another. My only wish is for him to be able to feel free to be open, happy, and comfortable with himself no matter what.
     
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    I wouldnt care. As long as they are happy and confident then all is good.
     
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    I would love my kids if they were asexual, straight, gay, bisexual, or pansexual. Hell, I would love my minions almost no matter what! They would have to do something really, really messed up to to change that. I'd have my realistic concerns but I think I'd do a decent job.

    I hate babies and I won't be having biological kids for various reasons. Adopting is a distant possibility. Although it's difficult to imagine myself properly settling down. Especially not anytime soon because it would cost too much time and money.
     
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    I want a lesbain daughter
    A gay son
    A stright daughter
    And a Bi daughter
    Maybe another gay son

    ---------- Post added 21st Feb 2015 at 11:52 AM ----------

    not joking
     
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    Oh, by statistics I mean that according to beyond blue LGBT+ are 2-3 times more likely to have depression and other stuff like that.
     
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    i was actually just discusing this with one of my friends a few days ago? well i said that when i adopt kids because i plan on adopting, i would love my child she/he be gay bi lesbian or straight, because i know how much i love my mother and the members of my family for being so accepting of my sexuality :slight_smile: if my son/daughter were gay i would teach them to be open about their sexuality because it is nothing that should be hidden. of course i will tell them that there is a time and place for everything, but that they need to be careful with who they trust because not everyone has the purest of intentions in mind. if my child were straight i would teach them to treat everyone equally it be gender, skin color, or the sexuality of a person, i would teach them that everyone IS equal and not just to treat those who are different with a sort of special respect because i sure as hell dont like that, but i guess i would try my best and wow this is far too long im going to post it now before i erase it all haha :lol:
     
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    If I ever had a kid, I'd want them to be themselves. It wouldn't matter to me if they turned out gay or straight, cis or transgender, masculine or feminine. As a parent, I would be there to teach them things and guide them through life, not forcing them to be something that I want them to be. I would introduce them to the LGBTQ+ community but I wouldn't expect anything from it.
     
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    I'd want my kids to be healthy, that's mainly what I care about. I'm curious for the people saying they want kids with their sexuality... would you be offended if a straight person wanted straight kids?
     
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    No, not at all. I would love them all the same no doubt, but seeing how much I suffered and continue to suffer from being gay i would never want my child to be challenged that way.
     
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    No. Luckily, it would never be up to me.
     
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    Ummm how are bisexuals lucky? Trust me, it can be very hard being bisexual.
    To the op: I would not care what sexuality my child is. I just want my child to be himself or herself. I want to be supportive accepting and teach my child acceptance. Straight or LGBT; it doesn't matter; I would just encourage him or her whoever he or she is.
     
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    I hate that type of mentality. What if the kid doesn't turn out to be gay, would you still love it or would not accept it/try to change it?

    I wouldn't want it to be anything. I honestly could care less. Whether it's LGBT+ or straight and cisgendered, it wouldn't make me love it any less.
     
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    I don't give a shit. They can be gay, straight, bi asexual, aromantic ect. The can be male, female, trans , bigender, genderfluid. The only thing I want for my future child is for them to be happy.
     
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    Hell yeah! My daughter is 9 and you can tell she is probably gonna wind up absolutely beautiful. I don't need that kind of competition for guys LOL :grin:

    Seriously though, I would prefer for her to be straight simply so that she doesn't have to go through the hardships of being gay. I would absolutely love her either way just that as a parent I would like to see my child have less struggles in life than I have.
     
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    Not in this world... ask me again in couple of decades.
     
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    I want them to be themselves.

    Though if they start eating meat and dairy when they grow up I'm going to smack them.
     
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    i have a son, and he knows it doesn't matter to me if he's gay, straight or other as long as he is happy. he said the same to me when i came out to him earlier this month.